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Shine a Light on Violence Prevention – Whiti te rama 

 

We want to collect stories of change to help shine a light on what works in violence prevention in our communities. We know there are many people who have really inspiring stories of change and redemption that could help people who are currently trapped in abusive, violent and unhealthy relationships. We want to know how they coped, where they got the support, and the tools that helped to change their situation. We want to hear from both former perpetrators and survivors.

We want to focus in on what we know works to help prevent violence by sharing stories of change, and ensure people truly understand the many facets of abuse and how to intervene to help. We are also making sure that we tailor our resources to a wider range of groups so that they are useful and relevant to all New Zealanders. Download the campaign outline here.

 

Men’s domestic and sexual violence toward women is persistent – but can be changed. Our brief is to encourage change towards a better, healthier version of men’s masculinity (where boys/men can be who they want to be and express emotions). The more men that talk about having respectful relationships and different ways of being men, the more this is behaviour can be seen as normal.

 

Shine a Light on violence prevention

 

White Ribbon has already focused on promoting aspects of healthy masculinity within our Respectful Relationships framework. Here we want to draw some of these threads together and empower the community to take action. In our 2021 campaign we aim to link together resources and information to help show the diversity of the issues, and offer ways to effect change. To do so, our focus is on educating and promoting four key behaviours:

  • Healthy Masculinity
  • Respectful Relationships
  • Consent
  • Call-in Culture

This campaign is also an opportunity to highlight the diversity of whānau/families and relationships:

  • LGBTQI+
  • Multi-generational families
  • Elder Abuse
  • The disabled and the high rates of abuse they suffer
  • Relationships between young people
  • Tangata whenua
  • Different cultures

The White Ribbon Ride 2021

The White Ribbon TorchDUE TO COVID THE NORTH ISLAND RIDE HAS BEEN CANCELLED. THE SOUTH ISLAND RIDE IS PROCEEDING SUBJECT TO COVID CHANGES.

Using the White Ribbon torches designed and created by NZDF in 2016, the three Rides would have traversed New Zealand, listened to people’s stories, collecting them and ensuring people’s voices and stories are heard. This will include both perpetrators and survivors. Please complete the Registration of Interest form if you would like to host the Ride [in the South Island]. Plans are in place for operation at Level 2 or below. Ride page here. Registration of Interest Form here.

 

This November we will be Shining a Light on Violence Prevention

We are asking organisations to take part by:

  • Lighting up one of your buildings at night on the 25th of November
  • Putting out a media release that supports the key messages of the campaign
  • Sharing in your media channels a violence prevention story from one of the many organisations or individuals that undertake violence prevention
  • Encouraging staff and the public to wear white ribbons this White Ribbon Day (Thursday 25th November)
  • Meeting with the White Ribbon Riders (3 Rides across NZ) as riders hear stories of change from communities
  • Organising events highlighting the issue, if you would like a White Ribbon Ambassador to speak please get in touch
  • Delivering stories of change to our MPs on Parliament steps on White Ribbon Day

We are asking individuals to take part by:

  • Sharing your stories with us (anonymously if you prefer) so we can help people understand that domestic violence affects people from all socio-economic groups and whether you are a survivor or former perpetrator – we can show those stuck in abusive relationships that change is possible. Share your story/video etc here
  • Talking about respectful relationships, consent, healthy masculinity and using call-in culture tactics to connect with friends (#Unspoken Rules and Challenging the #Outdated can be an easy way into discussing these issues)
  • Sharing White Ribbon posts on Facebook
  • Wearing a white ribbon this White Ribbon Day (Thursday 25th November) and telling anyone who asks about what it means
  • Meeting with the White Ribbon Riders (3 Rides across NZ) as Riders hear stories of change from communities
  • Encouraging local organisations to light up their spaces at night on the 25th of November
  • Attending local events to spread the kaupapa

The Shine a Light poster above is just a draft and we plan to release the campaign poster as a pdf, a flyer and infographics in early November, which can be downloaded and printed.

As we don’t have the funding to produce t-shirts this year, we have discounted the cost of our existing t-shirts to $15 for the next five weeks to encourage as many supporters as possible to wear White Ribbon t-shirts this November. We have a range of designs to choose from, so please check out our sale page. Enter this code at the checkout: WBYKRXS5M0FQ, when you enter your shipping details for the discount to be applied.

If you are organising an event, please add it to our online events list and send through any promotional material to contact@whiteribbon.org.nz so that we can help promote your event through our social media channels.

If there’s anything we can do to assist you in Shining a Light on Violence Prevention this November please get in touch at the email address above anytime. As more resources become available we will include them here so please check back next month.

Download the campaign info here

 

 

To help ends men’s violence, check out these eight actions.

Talk to women about their experiences with men – and believe what they tell you

Ask myself how I’ve treated women, and how I can behave more respectfully

Disrupt other men when they disrespect or threaten women – Bystander Intervention

Treat women as equals in everything we do and have less stress and be happier.

Choose how I will be a man and how I will act. Holding to rigid ideas is unhealthy.

Talk with young man about ‘breaking out of the man box’ you must appear tough etc

Think about what I’m watching and the media I use. Use your ‘crap-detector’.

Talk with young men about respectful relationships and porn. If you don’t who will?