Men want to be proud fathers, uncles, grandfathers and great husbands/partners. We want our partners and kids to live in safe homes without violence. Taking The Pledge to never commit, condone or remain silent about violence towards women means a better life for you and those close to you. The purpose of The Pledge is to demonstrate to men your commitment, to show to other men they are not alone in their beliefs, to help create momentum to change the social norm and build towards a country where we will not accept violence. You can take The Pledge here http://whiteribbon.org.nz/act/the-pledge/